I had this feeling after our first son Marlon died. And now I have this feeling again after our second son Tobias was stillborn. Something needs to happen and it feels as if I have to do something. It is hard to describe this urge to be active without knowing what exactly one is supposed to do. I hope that I will be able to put the finger on exactly what this might be sometime in the next few months. This website might actually help me in doing that by talking to other parents about their experiences, how they experience the loss and how grief manifests for them.